Hello people!! Welcome to another exciting edition of your favourite column on wetinhappen. Hope you enjoyed the Easter holidays? On this edition, I'm dropping it like its HOT on some juicy statements that would make your woman blush. You could learn a thing or two. Read on and digest some helpful tips...
1. "It's okay to go slow"
Say it and mean it. Especially when you're first rubbing skin with her, or when you're about to have sex with her for the first time since she gave birth.
It builds trust and reassures a woman that you care more about her than about the sex. Also, it often leads to the reverse-psychology phenomenon: She'll want to jump you by the time you finish the sentence.
2. "That freckle is beautiful"
 Compliments are always good. Except when they're generic. Then she'll think you've said the same thing to several other women. Focus on unique details—the way her lips curl or her eyes blink.
The more special you make her feel, the more aroused she gets. She wants to hear words that imply she's attractive, appreciated, loved—or at least liked.
Compliments after sex are good too. Women feel disheveled after sex—without makeup, hair all messy, etc. If a man tells a woman he loves the way she looks after sex, that's a bonus point.
3. "You"
Say it often. "You" is the HOTTEST word you can say to a woman in bed. "You make me feel so good" instead of "That feels so good." Subtle modification, but big difference in sentiment.
'You' is sexy because you're referring to her as opposed to the act of sex. It's very personal, and women love that.
4. "I'm going to take these off"
Compare this with "Should I take these off?" Too many questions makes sex seem clinical and cerebral, and women hate that. Also, women want the man to convey a sense of certainty.
When he does, it creates an intimate space where she can feel safe to open up.
Sometimes mid thrust queries are necessary, in which case it's best to whisper urgently in her ear. A better time for questions is before or after sex, while you're holding her.
5. "Next time, I'm going to ..." After-play is just as important for building her arousal as foreplay, and it takes only a fraction of the time. Create sexual anticipation by telling her what you're going to do to her next time, It conveys that you care about her and want to satisfy her. And it lets her know she's still desirable to you, even after you've had your way with her.

6. "You make me think dirty thoughts"
You've got to be careful at this point though. This is because not all women like this. It's best to test a bit, rather than go for your deepest, kinkiest dirty talk right away.
Be attuned to her response before you take it up a notch on the dirty scale. Know that you are likely to offend a woman at some point, When this happens, revert immediately to PG-rated compliments, like: "Did I mention that lovely freckle on your thigh? (Lol)
7. "I want to make you feel good"
You want her to have an orgasm, and you want her to know it. But talking about it is one way to ensure it won't happen—because, to her, it could come across as your being more concerned about your abilities than about how she feels.
"Focus not on orgasm, but on giving her sexual pleasure."It's more erotic." Swap in the words "feel good" and "pleasure" for "orgasm" in your vocabulary.
8. You amaze me"
Or "You're amazing." It says, "That was really great sex," without actually saying, "That was really great sex."
Another declaration that women love to hear: "You're the best lover I've ever had."
If it's true, tell her. There's no greater confidence booster; and once she holds the title, she'll make darn sure she keeps it.
9. "Let me get back to you on that"
Remember the movie Entrapment, Sean Connery says, "Rule Number Two: Never trust a naked woman." Adapt that to "Never trust yourself in the presence of a naked woman" and make it Rule Number One when it comes to talking to her in bed.
"Before you make a promise, imagine her with clothes on for just a second," A man under the influence of the "p-" or "c-word" is in no state to make rational decisions or commitments. She knows this. So Beware.
CIAO!!!
From our in-house writer: Mfon Louis
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